I’ve always heard that the first step in dealing with a problem is admitting you have one, so there you go. I said it. I’m fat. Obese. Portly. Robust. Chubby. Rotund. Chunky. Round. Not thin.
You get the picture.
I’ve never been what one would call a “skinny” person. Certainly I’ve never fit into the modern ideal of how a woman should look. I have always had a comfortable, pack mule type build. Short, strong, and dependable. Not ideal, but useful.
At any rate, the pack mule has been packing on the pounds. It’s depressing. The simple fact is, my metabolism has become my enemy. The things I used to be able to get away with now seemingly add pounds and inches almost instantaneously. I can eat an order of fries, and if I’m very quiet, I can actually hear the fat cell orgy that is going on in my thighs. Those little suckers multiply by the thousands, by the millions, and they are nearly impossible to kill.
Not that I’ve tried all that hard.
The truth is, I never worked up enough care to do much about my physical appearance. The years go by, you get a little older, a little slower, and a little squishy around the middle. That’s life, right? For me, though, the years have gone by, and the fat has sneakily appeared. At first, I thought the changing temperature and humidity in my closet was causing my clothing to shrink. Then I noticed only my clothes were shrinking. Huh. I had to buy a bigger size, then a bigger one, until I have now finally reached the point where, if I don’t do something, I’ll just have to convert a king size sheet into a toga and wear that.
That’s not the worst part.
The worst part is that I also recently got a lecture from my doctor about a bunch of scary terms like “HDL” and “LDL” and “blood pressure” and God knows what else. I finally had to take action.
So I went to McDonald’s.
Ha ha, just kidding. What I really did was join a gym. Really. I also gave up sweets, soda, and, horror of horrors, smoking. So, in short, my life sucks now. Ha ha! Another joke! See how humorous I’m feeling?
I’ve never been a member of a gym before. It’s hard to pretend you know what you are doing when, in fact, you are trying to use your legs for the chest press. Anyway, the treadmill seemed like a safe option, so that’s where I spend a lot of my gym time. Treadmill time is sssslllloooooooowwww time, so I have a lot of time to reflect, while trying to pretend like I’m not about ready to drop dead from a heart attack.
That’s really the biggest challenge to the whole gym thing, isn’t it? Pretending we are already in shape? Obviously, I am at the gym because the only shape I’m in is round, but why is everyone there smaller and in better shape than me?! They run on the treadmill. They toss free weights around as though they (the weights) were made of paper mache. And over here I am, praying to God I don’t have some sort of bowel-related incident while trying to leg lift 25 pounds.
It’s hard not to be discouraged.
Also, I think about food a lot. Like, a lot. Our entire culture pretty much revolves around food. Did you ever notice? Every family gathering, from weddings to funerals and everything in between, is somehow focused on food. I’m not talking about health food either. When was the last time you took tofu and watercress to a family reunion? In addition to constantly having food, the amount we eat is ridiculous. We aren’t satisfied until we have eaten enough food to test the limits of the most forgiving elastic waistband. We may actually reach a point where we have eaten so much food we are no longer able to hold ourselves in a vertical position, but we would ask, from the floor where are laying, what’s for dessert.
So, I’m missing food, and I’m exercising. I’m also trying to do things to keep my mind and hands busy, such as work on this blog faithfully again. But for now I’m going to take a break.