Well, my husband dislikes typing very much, so I am forced to type for him a rebuttal to my previous post about what the bride’s wedding vows should really be. Apparently, my better half feels as though he should defend himself and his gender against some of the implications of my vows, and he even offers a few of his own.
This is his view of the matter:
- I vow to forever take the blame for “tracking mud” in the house, even if it is six in the morning and the only things I’ve had on my feet are my house shoes.
- I am afraid of the hamper, because God forbid I put an article in there that doesn’t belong, like a towel with two water molecules on it.
- I vow to be very quiet when you are sick, because you are, frankly, the meanest sick person I have ever seen. Ever.
- I vow to try to walk a fine line between helping you too much and not enough, because you don’t like lazy people, but you don’t want anybody to do anything for you, either.
- I vow to never dare complain about being sick for longer than twenty-four hours, because that’s about how long your sympathy lasts before you run out of patience.
- I will never, ever, ever be clean enough for you. No one is clean enough for you. Look at this way–you are a woman, and when your house is neat and tidy, people say, oh, look how clean your house is! I am a guy–if I keep a clean and tidy house, people say, oh, he’s gay.
- I vow to watch a scary movie with you, even though I know you will be up all night, and you’ll make me get up with you if you have to pee.
- On a related note, I vow to go with you to the bathroom when we go camping, because I know you are afraid of the dark.
- I vow to at least keep my hunting stuff out of the house–I do it for you, baby.
- I vow to try my best to avoid all possible contact with you before 9:00am or three cups of coffee, whichever comes first.
- I vow not to touch you when you are having a hot flash.
- I vow to lay patiently beside you while you toss and turn, and toss, and turn, and toss, and turn, and toss…….
- I vow to not be annoyed with you when you wake up pissed at me for something I did to you–in a dream you had.
- I vow to watch an untold number of paranormal shows about aliens, ghosts, and Bigfoot, even though I think every bit of that is bullshit. (Although I draw the line at Ghost Adventures.)
So you see, there is a lot more to the wedding vows than just that “richer and poorer” bit. There’s a lot of give and take when you are in any kind of relationship, although personally I think the women do a tad more giving. Matt agrees–giving guys crap, giving guys a hard time, giving guys chores to do…….
And hopefully giving them enough love to last a lifetime.